


AEL is a gender and sexuality-inclusive BDSM organization located in Albuquerque, New Mexico, led by Daddy Stan (Pantheon of Leather Rocky Mountain Regional Award winner), girl kathryn (Ms. New Mexico Leather) and slavegirl laura. The group holds monthly parties and educational munches.
For 35 years, AEL has been bringing together people interested in BDSM, D/s, and kink through education, community, and shared experiences.
Whether you’re just beginning your journey or have years of experience, you’ll find opportunities to learn, connect, and grow in a welcoming, respectful environment built on communication, consent, and mutual respect.
At AEL, we believe education is the foundation of a safe and thriving community. Browse our articles to learn new skills, expand your knowledge, and make informed decisions.
Come back often… we’re always adding new posts!


